Are you a prisoner of your past ?
We go through bad experiences in our life, we want to move forward ,but we stay prisoners of the past !
How you find out that you are a prisoner of your past ?
--> Here is : some conclusions and advices I made from my own experience =)
If you were through a bad experience like divorce , breaking a relationship in which your partner let you down ,or being betrayed in a friendship ...
In order , to know wether, you are prisonner of this deception or not you should take some time and see how you act ,if you find yourself classifying everyone in the same class as you classified your partner or an ex friend who betrayed you, than be sure that you didn't get over your bad experience , and these people who does not deserve even your thoughts, are influencing your life ,in order to get over this , you should make sure that you forgive them even if they were the worst persons, you had ever met ,if you can't , forgive yourself for being with them ,the day when you realize that you ,liberate the hate , or the feelings of being betrayed that are inside of your heart , you will find that , life will be more simple and happy , hearts full of hate and intolerance can't have peace , and it will not let you go on in your life , you will be depressed all the day , you will loose appetite for eating and you'll feel alone on your own world ,without support .It's not something easy to do , to forgive someone who hurted you deeply is not easy but, it's not impossible !
Make sure to share your sadness and deceptions with some close people , this could make it easier for you,to accept what happened and try to find peace in something !
How you find out that you are a prisoner of your past ?
--> Here is : some conclusions and advices I made from my own experience =)
If you were through a bad experience like divorce , breaking a relationship in which your partner let you down ,or being betrayed in a friendship ...
In order , to know wether, you are prisonner of this deception or not you should take some time and see how you act ,if you find yourself classifying everyone in the same class as you classified your partner or an ex friend who betrayed you, than be sure that you didn't get over your bad experience , and these people who does not deserve even your thoughts, are influencing your life ,in order to get over this , you should make sure that you forgive them even if they were the worst persons, you had ever met ,if you can't , forgive yourself for being with them ,the day when you realize that you ,liberate the hate , or the feelings of being betrayed that are inside of your heart , you will find that , life will be more simple and happy , hearts full of hate and intolerance can't have peace , and it will not let you go on in your life , you will be depressed all the day , you will loose appetite for eating and you'll feel alone on your own world ,without support .It's not something easy to do , to forgive someone who hurted you deeply is not easy but, it's not impossible !
Make sure to share your sadness and deceptions with some close people , this could make it easier for you,to accept what happened and try to find peace in something !
At the end ,is up to you to decide ! leave your past behind , change your life (if there is a will ,there is a way ) , live your present and think about future
Written by ~InspiredTunisianGirl~
Written by ~InspiredTunisianGirl~
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