"Past is a good place to visit but certainly not a good place to stay."

"Past is a good place to visit but certainly not a good place to stay." 

We go through bad experiences in our life, we want to move forward ,but we stay prisoners of the past !

The memories that we make in life with the people and the things that we adore in each moment are memories that we should cherish for the rest of our lives.These memories could be bad for some people ,for some others ,they are the best memories they ever had in life .However ,the point is to turn this sweet or bad memories to a motivation ,in order to move on in your life . Memories are made for us to be able to look back upon, and appreciate times that were good, and to learn from times that were bad, and also to help us overcome situations that arise in our present and future that we have answers to because of the things that we experienced in our pasts.

Are you prisoner of your past ?

If you were through a bad experience like divorce , breaking a relationship in which your partner let you down ,or being betrayed in a friendship ...In order , to know wether, you are prisonner of this deception or not you should take some time and see how you act ,if you find yourself classifying everyone in the same class as you classified your partner or an ex friend who betrayed you, than be sure that you didn't get over your bad experience , and these people who does not deserve even your thoughts, are influencing your life ,in order to get over this , you should make sure that you forgive them even if they were the worst persons, you had ever met ,if you can't , forgive yourself for being with them ,the day when you realize that you ,liberate the hate , or the feelings of being betrayed that are inside of your heart , you will find that , life will be more simple and happy , hearts full of hate and intolerance can't have peace , and it will not let you go on in your life , you will be depressed all the day , you will loose appetite for eating and you'll feel alone on your own world ,without support .It's not something easy to do , to forgive someone who hurted you deeply is not easy but, it's not impossible !Make sure to share your sadness and deceptions with some close people , this could make it easier for you,to accept what happened and try to find peace in something !

Obstacles that you might face , can be a motivation to push you forward !


When you don't succeed in something that meant a lot for you , remember that it's not the end of the world ,since you know deep inside that you tried your best to make it happen , it won't be a problem: " to succeed or not " , as long as you will not regret the fact that you didn't try ! If you didn't made an effort to make things that you want it very badly to happen , don't blame it on people ,you have to blame yourself ,for not trying harder! and remember , that this is a hard lesson for you , to push you next time you try your best ! In this world , we can't have things so easy , you have to work hard to get what you want . Life,sometimes, could be easier for your friends or people that you know ,and harder for you , don't loose hope or faith in yourself ,you have to fight for what you want to do and remember that success will be the cure for you after !

It is very crucial to remember when dealing with the past that though it may be a good place to visit sometimes for those who have sweet memories or even bad memories which they can't overcome, that it is not a good place to stay. Trying to live in the past will severely limit the future of any individual trying to do so. In trying to live in the past we essentially are focusing our efforts on going backwards in life, when we must only be concerned with moving forward, and creating the best future for ourselves as possible.
~Written by InspiredTunisianGirl~